In this day of social media overflowing into almost every aspect of our lives, many are drawn to it because of numbers. Now don’t get me wrong, I love some numbers. For me, with blog posts, numbers are something I watch. I do check my stats and even cheer them on. But what it means to me is that someone at least clicked on the link and if I wrote something that mattered to them that day, they may have stayed long enough to read it. For a writer, being read matters.
We are bombarded by too much information these days and there is no way that everyone can spend time to read everything that comes to them in the form of e-mail, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, direct mail, or a thousand other forms. I get that! But getting read matters to me. Getting comments on the blog itself matters to me. When I started investigating social media, the blogs I liked best had a community of people much like Facebook or Twitter that regularly talked. It was because of that community that I made many of the following choices later on other social media formats. A few examples:
Kim Woodbridge caught my attention early on both because of the conversation on her blog and because I learned things. Kim is a WordPress expert and I followed her as she explained many of the tips of working with a WordPress blog and her adventure as she decided to become a freelancer. The post I linked to in this post is about Broccoli Soup. Look at the comments Kim gets on a topic of Broccoli Soup and notice the community Kim keeps her blog real and interesting by giving great information and at the same time keeping it personal. Out of that initial contact, I hired Kim to move my blog from an independent WordPress location to my website and to give it a facelift to match the website. I would hire Kim again (and probably will soon) because she understands the WordPress world far better than I do.
As you might have realized, Jason Alba has influenced me tremendously. We met on career industry e-lists and his willingness to be personable, caring, and helpful struck me. I read his blog posts then and still do. And follow his tweets, Facebook posts, and LinkedIn growth. Jason has always been the example I cite for my clients when they worry about being unemployed. If you don’t know Jason’s story, click here. I’ve called him “the lemons to lemonade guy” more than once.
Joe Jacobi gave me the first introduction to social media when he and Bob Campbell invited me to LinkedIn. He has consistently led by example by the way he uses Twitter, Facebook, his video blogs and more to communicate and grow community. His most recent video blog with Jessie Stone from Soft Power Health is inspirational and really reflects the Joe I have grown to know so much better since we started talking through social media. Joe came to Wausau for Wausau Whitewater this summer to coach at one of our training camps and by the time he got here and we went to dinner, we had so much more common ground than we had in the days when we only met on the river when he came to compete or coach.
Danny Brown was another of the people I met early in social media. From Danny, I learned how social media and fundraising can integrate and be successful. His project 12for12K is a clear inspiration of how to bring causes that many people never knew about and get community involved in working together, showing that even small amounts can do great things. He has a great way of communicating and building community and like Jason, even though I know he has much to do, he has commented back to me. I am always amazed when people do that.
I could go on for pages of people who have expanded my horizons and given me joy through social media. But I won’t. Before I end, I will say that if I had one person that has amazed me beyond believe through my social media connection, it would be Marcel Murrell who at 95, has mastered Twitter, YouTube, and Facebook and has entertained, counseled, inspired, and taught those of us who follow him along the way.
Numbers, no, not number of followers, numbers of friends, numbers of connections, not numbers… lessons, friendships, community, and amazement have been the reason behind my forage into social media.
How about you? Who inspired you and why are you here?















Well put, Julie!
Julie,
I applaud you for sharing your wisdom with our community. Keep up the Hardwork!
What a great post. I am so glad to see you mentioned that numbers is not the game! The friends and contacts are all that matter in the end.
(Marcel will get a treat out of reading this.)
Thought provoking Julie. Reminds me of a quote read last week. Think it was Einstein and it went something like this…
Not everything that counts, can be counted
Not everything that can be counted, counts.
Seems Darcey was the one spreading that word!
Hi Julie,
Thank you so much for the mention. I’m glad you enjoy the WordPress and recipe tips
I love to cook when the weather cools off.
Hi Kim, you know, the feeling is mutual… what is it about cooler months that make us seek comfort food? I cook more when it is cooler too!
Thanks, Bridget! I could list a 100 people or more that have improved my journey and still not make much of a dent. I am thankful!
Thanks, Kevin! I share what I’ve learned along the way and it has been a lot of fun! Hopefully people find value!
Hi Tammy, for so many people (especially on Twitter) it is all about numbers. It is always about communication and many times numbers get in the way of effective communication or just make it harder.
I love Marcel! and I am guessing he might know that but if he didn’t, blog comments are forever!
I saw that one, TJ, and I think you are right, it was Darcey! I feel that way totally and I suspect you know that too. People are my focus, people, relationships, conversation, and hopefully it leads to friendship!